JOIN US! May 1, 2026
9:00am-4pm Central Time
Ignite the Collaboration
Hybrid Event | Des Moines, IA & Zoom
9:00am-4pm Central Time
Ignite the Collaboration
Hybrid Event | Des Moines, IA & Zoom

CollabFest Midwest was founded in 2020 as an online conference by Iowa Collaborative Divorce as a way to bring collaborative professionals together from across the Midwest and across the country to share and learn from each other. We are glad you are here to join the conversation.

9:00-9:30a.m. | Teamwork, Trust & Transparency: Building Strong Collaborative Teams
Speaker: Kristen Boldt
Trust is the foundation of every successful collaborative case—and it starts with how teams communicate and work together. In this session, Kristen Boldt breaks down what it truly means to “think like a team,” how to model healthy communication for clients, and how to create feedback loops that strengthen trust over time. Attendees will gain practical insight into how trust can break down, how to repair it, and how intentional explanation and education of the collaborative process sets teams up for success.
9:30-11:00a.m. | Cultivating Trust Between Parents After Divorce
Moderator: Kristen Boldt
Panelists: Roman Vald, Lora McCollom, Diane Dornburg, Larry Scanlon
Helping parents rebuild trust post-divorce is one of the most challenging—and impactful—parts of collaborative practice. This panel brings together experienced professionals who will share real-world stories, strategies, and tools for fostering cooperation between parents. Topics include the role of parenting coordinators, the use of software tools, mediators as family neutrals, and how teams can model effective collaboration to support healthier co-parenting relationships.
11:15-12:15p.m. | UCLA & ICLA: Creating Consistency, Reducing Risk, and Increasing Client Value
Speaker: Bob Merlin
As more states adopt the Uniform Collaborative Law Act (UCLA), understanding its impact is essential for collaborative professionals. Bob Merlin explores how UCLA and ICLA create consistency in the collaborative process, increase value for clients, and significantly reduce professional liability. This session provides practical insight into why standardized frameworks matter—and how they strengthen both practice and outcomes.
12:15-12:45p.m. | Lunch & Connecting
12:45-2:15p.m. | Best Practices from Experienced Collaborative Attorneys
Moderator: Kendra Erkamaa
Panelists: Rob Evans, Kara McClure, Laura Lockwood, Lora McCollom
What separates effective collaborative attorneys from the rest? This interactive panel dives into lessons learned from seasoned professionals who actively practice collaboration. Topics include when and why to engage a full team, the value of neutrals, effective deliverables, problem-solving resources, and how attorneys help other attorneys make the collaborative mindset shift. Attendees will also learn how these professionals attract and sustain collaborative cases—and what “next steps” truly look like in practice.
2:30-3:30p.m. | How to Market in a Thriving Collaborative Divorce Practice
Speakers: Ed Sachs & Eric Sachs
A strong collaborative practice doesn’t happen by accident—it’s built with intention and strategy. Ed and Eric Sachs of My Collaborative Team share proven marketing approaches to reinvigorate and grow collaborative practices. Attendees will walk away with actionable ideas to increase visibility, communicate value to clients, and build a practice that aligns with both professional goals and collaborative principles.
3:30-4::00p.m. | OurFamiliyWizard: Improving Outcomes for Families with Structured Co-Parenting Communication
Speaker: Nathan Bailey
This session explores how structured co-parenting communication tools can support families and professionals working in family law. Attendees will learn how OurFamilyWizard is used by parents and practitioners to manage, document, and support communication in a variety of case types, including high-conflict situations. The presentation includes a guided overview of platform features, practitioner access, and real-world examples of agreements and court orders, along with discussion on how these tools may help reduce conflict and improve outcomes for families.

Kristen Boldt is a mediator, communication coach and trainer. She works with individuals and organizations to learn a new way of communicating and collaborating that is relational rather than transactional. Through Spherical Thinking, she helps people see themselves, others, and their organizations differently and teaches the skills to go FARR (flexible, adaptable, resilient and responsive). When we see ourselves and our world spherically, we can navigate life’s challenges and the constant flux in a way that lets us thrive, not just survive.

Known for helping clients reach a settlement or enter into agreements, Bob Merlin is committed to helping his clients to resolve divorces and other family law issues in the least adversarial ways possible.
Advocating for the best interests of the entire family, Bob applies his skills in the Collaborative Process, mediation, and direct negotiations to help his clients enter into agreements and without going to court.
Bob excels in managing complicated financial matters, including the valuation and division of property. When children are involved, he ensures that their needs and best interests are the highest priorities. Whether representing professionals, executives, athletes, or their spouses, Bob works best with clients looking for a private, mature, efficient way of divorcing that does not perpetuate destruction.
“My goal is to help divorcing and other family law clients make well-informed decisions so they experience a more efficient process and feel more in control over their futures.”
A Florida Bar Board Certified Family Law Specialist, Bob practices in the areas of divorce, timesharing of children and parenting plans, child support, alimony, paternity, pre-nuptial and post-nuptial agreements, and cohabitation/partnership agreements.
An experienced Collaborative attorney, Bob continually hones his skills in the Collaborative Process and trains other professionals how to become a Collaborative professional as he is. Bob has a long history of being involved in community organizations and taking leadership positions.

Edward Sachs is a Certified Public Accountant and Accredited Collaborative
Professional.
After 25 years of representing spouses in litigated divorces, in 2016, Mr. Sachs
opened his own accounting practice dedicated to the Collaborative Process and
other alternatives to litigation in settling financial issues in divorce and business.
Ed is a Past President of the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals
(FACP) and is a member of three practice groups in Miami-Dade, Broward and
South Palm Beach counties. He currently serves as the President of My
Collaborative Team, the not-for-profit publisher of the #1 distributed weekly
Collaborative Family Law Newsletter in North America.
Mr. Sachs has trained countless professionals throughout Florida in the
Collaborative Process and has taught Collaborative Ethical Standards for the past
three years at the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Annual Forum.

Nathan Bailey is a Legal Education Coordinator with the OurFamilyWizard website. His role includes educating Judges, lawyers, and other family law professionals on the online tools that can be utilized to benefit and monitor the parental communication process in high conflict cases. He attended the University of Minnesota where he graduated with a BS in Marketing. Nate has presented CLE trainings for different bar associations and family law organizations around the country. Speaking engagements within the last year have included audiences with the State Bar Associations of North Dakota and Kansas, the Collin and Smith County Bar Associations in Texas, and the Indianapolis Bar Association.

Kendra is a consultant, financial planner and financial advisor specializing in divorce analysis, financial planning projections and cash flow analysis. She is experienced in providing income analysis, spousal support analysis and cash flow analysis for a multitude of purposes including retirement planning, distribution analysis, present day valuations, tax planning, career transitions and marital dissolutions. Kendra has provided financial analysis for over 80 divorce cases and has served as financial neutral for over 30 collaborative divorces over the last 6 years. Kendra joined Triangle Financial Services in 2004 and is a frequent speaker at professional conferences and forums on financial complexities in divorce, retirement planning, and collaborative divorce.

Eric Sachs is the owner and operator of Sachs Multimedia where he provides a variety of services to help
businesses with all their marketing needs. Since 2015, Eric has specialized in marketing the Collaborative
Process for organizations, practice groups, and solo practitioners from around the world. Providing a
wide range of marketing services, from social media management, website design and development,
email marketing, and much more, Eric and his team work hand-in-hand to create the perfect package to
make your company's marketing goals become a reality.

I have been practicing family law in Iowa for over 31 years. During that time, I have learned the importance of individuals having as much input as possible into their post-relationship parenting and financial lives, and the courtroom is not the place to accomplish this goal. Whether through a collaborative proceeding, mediation, or other methods of alternative dispute resolution, parents owe it to their kids, and themselves, to maximize their input into all parenting arrangements. Using a collaborative approach also allows you the benefits of involving neutral professionals as needed to assist with both parenting matters and financial matters, and it saves everyone money by having neutral professionals rather than dueling professionals. At the end of the day, I want my clients to be in the best possible position to move forward as individuals and as parents, and collaborative practice is absolutely the best choice to navigate that path.

As a lawyer representing children, Diane sees families from the children’s viewpoint and gives the children a voice in disputes between their parents.
Diane is an experienced litigator, mediator and parenting coordinator. Diane is enthusiastic about alternative approaches to handling family law problems. Everyone in the family benefits when parents and children have clear expectations and minimal conflict.
After graduating from Gustavus Adolphus College and University of Michigan Law School, Diane represented low-income persons in Ann Arbor, Muscatine and Des Moines for over 25 years, most of that time as the supervising attorney of the family law unit at the Legal Aid Society of Polk County. For nearly two decades, she was an associate at Carney & Appleby, where she represented parents and children in divorce, custody, domestic violence and all other types of family law cases.
In addition to her work as a lawyer, Diane facilitates a continuing care group at Powell Chemical Dependency Center, is actively involved in her church and has served on the Walnut Street School PTO. She is a member of the Polk County Bar Association Family Law Committee, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, Iowa Collaborative Divorce Practice Group and International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. For more than 20 years she was the Legislative Chair for the Family & Juvenile Law Section of the Iowa State Bar, and served on the Iowa Supreme Court Family Law Reform Task Force.
Diane is passionate about helping families. She has been a foster parent, stepparent, adoptive parent, grandparent and guardian. “I see right in front of me my own kids who struggle with their parents’ family conflict, mental illness, substance abuse, incarceration, and generational domestic violence. I learn from my kids every day; they remind me of the realities of life as I practice family law.”

Rob Evans is a partner in the Miller & Evans law firm. His practice areas include divorce, child custody, child support, modifications, alimony, guardianships, mediation, and collaborative law. Rob focuses on dispute resolution outside of court through negotiation and offers collaborative divorce services as an option for his clients. Rob’s knowledge of the law, keen negotiation skills, and straight forward approach makes him one of Des Moines’s most sought after family law mediators.
Rob is a member of the American Bar Association, the Iowa Bar Association, the Polk County Bar Association, the Alliance for Collaborative Divorce, and the Central Iowa Academy of Collaborative Professionals. Rob is also a volunteer with the Polk County Volunteer Lawyers Project.

Kara is an attorney who focuses on family law, including divorces and custody actions, guardianships, conservatorships, and estate planning.
In her family law practice, Kara has the unique ability to fill a variety of roles. She can assist family law clients in collaborative cases, as a “traditional” attorney, or in a limited representation role. Kara also serves in child representation roles, such as a child’s attorney, Guardian ad Litem, or Child & Family Reporter. She has certifications as a family law mediator, collaborative law practitioner, and parenting coordinator.
Kara is active in the Dallas County Bar Association, Iowa State Bar Association, and Central Iowa Academy of Collaborative Professionals. Kara is a member of the Jack D. Levin Family Law Inn of Court (American Inns of Court) in central Iowa.
In her free time, Kara loves to be with her family, spend time outside, and run.

Laura Lockwood is a family law collaborative attorney and mediator, also practicing in the areas of estate planning and probate. Having practiced for over 17 years and having received extensive training in the collaborative and mediation processes, Laura strongly believes that peacemaking is an invaluable skill — particularly in family law. Laura is committed to learning her clients’ stories and advocating for and obtaining results with their whole family in mind.

Lawrence graduated in 1997 from Loyola University Chicago School of Law and
practiced as a litigator for two decades. In 2008, he attended The Chicago School
of Professional Psychology. He graduated in 2010, having earned a Masters of Arts
in Clinical Psychology with a Counseling Subspecialty. In 2015, he moved to Des
Moines with his family. He is licensed as an attorney and mental health
counselor in Illinois and Iowa. He serves the public via two businesses:
Scanlon Law Office PLLC, assisting psychotherapy and counseling practices
with ethical or business issues.
Insight Family Counseling, providing Reunification Therapy, CoParenting
Counseling and court-ordered psychotherapy. Lawrence also serves as a Neutral
Family Professional and Coach in Collaborative Divorce cases. In addition,
Lawrence Provides psychotherapy and counseling services to Iowa families,
individuals and professionals seeking to live more fulfilling personal and
professional lives.


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